When we talk about stress, we often think about our overflowing inboxes, mounting bills, or the unpredictability of daily life. But one of the most overlooked, yet deeply impactful, sources of stress is what happens during times of death, illness, and financial uncertainty. And nothing makes those moments harder than being unprepared.

As an estate planning attorney, I’ve seen firsthand how families struggle through heartbreaking and complicated transitions simply because they didn’t have a plan in place. That’s why I want to highlight an area of preparation that is often ignored until it’s too late: estate planning.

Only 32% of Americans Have an Estate Plan. Why Is That Number So Low?

According to The Estate Registry’s COO, Howard Enders, only about 32% of Americans have created an estate plan. That means nearly 7 in 10 people are leaving their loved ones vulnerable to confusion, legal hurdles, and costly court processes.

So why are so many people avoiding this conversation?

* It feels overwhelming. Many think estate planning is only for the wealthy or involves too many complex decisions.
* They don’t know where to start. Without guidance, it’s easy to put it off.
* They assume they’re too young or don’t have enough assets.
* It’s uncomfortable. Talking about death or incapacity isn’t easy.
* Misconceptions abound. People think a will is enough or that things will “just work themselves out.”

Five Reasons to Make Estate Planning a Priority

1. Protect your loved ones from unnecessary legal battles and emotional distress.
2. Avoid probate, which can tie up your assets for years.
3. Ensure your wishes are honored, especially when it comes to healthcare and guardianship.
4. Secure your legacy, regardless of the size of your estate.
5. Gain peace of mind knowing your affairs are in order and your family is supported.

Digital Tools Are Making Estate Planning Easier

The good news is that estate planning doesn’t have to be intimidating or expensive. With the rise of digital estate management tools, it’s easier than ever to get organized.

Today’s platforms can help you:
* Create and securely store your documents
* Share information with your family and key advisors
* Keep everything up to date
* Build a clear roadmap for your loved ones to follow when the time comes

Technology is helping families take control of their estate planning in a more affordable and accessible way.

The Consequences of Not Planning

Without an estate plan, your family may face:
* Lengthy and costly probate proceedings
* Decisions made by the courts under State laws
* Family disputes over money and property
* Frozen accounts and delayed access to accounts
* A lack of clarity during medical emergencies if no advance directive exists

Not planning doesn’t mean nothing will happen. It means the most important decisions could be made by someone else, often without your input or your family’s best interests in mind.

Estate Planning Is a Form of Self-Care

Estate planning is about more than legal documents and financial assets. It’s about clarity, care, and protecting the people you love. It’s also part of a broader conversation about wellness, financial literacy, and long-term peace of mind.

If you’ve been putting it off, you’re not alone. But taking the first step now can prevent heartache later.

If you’re ready to get started or want to learn more about how estate planning can support your family’s future, we are here to help!